Saturday, February 20, 2010

WAYS TO SUCCEED WITH WOMEN!!!!

Number 10
Set a boundary with her as soon as possible
Setting boundaries with women -- when done correctly -- establishes leadership, status and masculinity. This is especially important if you’re one of those guys (like I was) who feels an urge to give a woman whatever she wants. The problem with giving her exactly what she wants is that it kills attraction. A woman doesn’t want you to be a doormat -- she wants you to be a man. Let’s say a woman reaches over and touches you; tell her, half kidding, “Don’t touch me.” Even though you’re having fun here, your comment communicates that you understand boundaries -- that you “get it.” So, set boundaries in a playful and fun way, but set them when it comes to serious issues as well. And don’t hesitate to set boundaries if a woman is playing games with you.

Number 9
Don’t give all of yourself to just any woman
When most guys meet a woman they really like, they immediately offer “everything” they have to her. Unfortunately, the message that a woman gets when you do this is that you aren’t the most important person in your life -- she is. This is a bad, bad move. Instead, keep a part of yourself “off limits” and totally unavailable to women. If you want to maintain the attraction, don’t hand over the keys and the pink slip, but let her enjoy the feeling of being able to be near you for a while.

Number 8
Be the star, not the planet
When it comes to dating, most men behave like planets looking for a star to orbit. If you want to build attraction with a woman fast, however, take on the mindset of being the star instead. Be a “centered” man whom women want to orbit. When you become so rock-solid internally that no random woman can knock you off course, then you begin to affect them. Work on losing your concern for what women think of you. When you do, you’ll free up your mind, emotions and communication to be yourself. The positive aspect is that it makes you far more transparent and authentic and the negative is that if you don’t have your “inner game” together and your immature boy nature dealt with, it will shine through and reveal things that will hurt you. Learn how to handle this part of you, pronto.

Number 7
Learn to deal with “two-sided” women
As a mature man, you will encounter many attractive young women who have “double identities.” On the one hand, they’re the perfect, proper and innocent little girl, while on the other, they’re the promiscuous, herd-following, manipulative, and distrustful girl-woman. Unfortunately, most men fall into the trap of seeing only the “angel” in a woman and not seeing the “other” side of her personality -- and even worse, they’re not suspecting that it’s even possible that it could be there.

One mark of a mature man is the combination of his ability to see and accept the reality of any and all “sides” of a woman with his ability to make a woman feel accepted for who she really is. Don’t get confused; this doesn’t imply that you must “tolerate” or “accept” second-class behavior or poor ethics from any woman.

Number 6
Cultivate the “real man” inside
Women want to be with a “real man,” but what exactly does that mean? It means that you feel comfortable in the presence of beautiful women, high-status people and uncertainty. It means you keep composure in the face of competition from other men, tests from women and drama. It means you have clear values when dealing with the women you’re dating, other men and people in influential positions. Keep these concepts in mind, make them a part of who you are and your success with women will skyrocket.

Number 5
Build a happy single life
Most guys go from being unhappy alone to finding a woman to cling to and end up holding on too tightly and giving away power, effectively destroying the attraction in the relationship. If you want to succeed with women, you need to build a single life that’s so fun that you actually prefer and choose to be single for a while -- and then decide if you want to find a special lady with whom to settle down. Make your single life so fantastic that you almost don’t have time for a relationship. Enter a relationship to improve your already great life, not to be your life. And if you’re already hooked up, build a personal life to enjoy on your own so you can be at your best when you’re with your woman.

Number 4
Stop worrying about what she’s thinking
Most guys make the mistake of acting based on what they think women will think of their true thoughts. Let’s say you’re with a woman and you’re thinking, “Wow, I can’t believe how beautiful she is…” Most guys start acting as if she knows you’re thinking about her looks, which causes all sorts of unnatural and “weird” behavior. Instead, be OK with whatever you’re thinking, and don’t care about what she’s thinking. Work on being open and authentic, and you’ll go a long way in making women feel a gut-level attraction to you.

Number 3
Get your “cool” on
We all know that women have a special attraction for guys who are “cool,” but what exactly is cool? The word implies a temperature that’s between warm and cold; if you apply this idea to your attitude, it means neither coming on too strong nor being overly standoffish. A “cool” guy isn’t too excited about anything, isn’t too affected by anything, isn’t emotionally reactive, and has control of himself. A cool guy has an offbeat sense of humor, a sense of style, music and food, and can make fun of himself. He has a calm confidence, doesn’t act “above” others and assumes a “cool” connection with everyone he runs across. You have a hidden potential for cool deep inside of you -- learn how to bring it out and women will react instantly.

Number 2
Polish up how you talk
Most of what you communicate to a woman has more to do with how you communicate than with the words you use. So, work on communicating in a way and style that dials up the attraction. Here’s a simple exercise that will get you thinking about the way you communicate: Try saying, “Hello, how are you?” with a smile. Next, say, “Oh, um, hi there” in an insecure way. Then say, “What’s up?” like a cool guy would. Finally, show a sly smile and lean your head back slowly, without any words at all. Practice different styles of communicating with women until you find one that you’re comfortable with that amps up the attraction. Then wash, rinse and repeat.

Number 1
Commit to becoming a naturally attractive guy
The most important thing you can do to take your success with women to the next level is to make a commitment to learn whatever it takes to get this part of your life handled. Unless you start doing things differently, you’re going to get the same results as what you're getting right now. Want something different? Then do something different. Get the education you need to develop the confidence to attract women powerfully, and you’ll live the life you’ve always deserved.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

THICK WOMEN IN BRAZIL

THIS VIDEO IS FROM BRAZIL CHEK THE 4:04 PART AND LEAVE YA COMMENT!!!!!!

http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhcu3pn7mw6lR81Y41


QUESTION: DO YOU WANT A WOMAN WITH A BEAUTIFUL BODY WITH A OK FACE OR A WOMAN WITH A BEAUTIFUL FACE AND OK BODY?